Man this is so true... Don't hear from a friend for a minute then they want to slide over a baby shower or wedding invite... I also noticed this new trend of people having a "small" wedding... They have a pre wedding dinner where you bring a gift... And they don't invite you the the ceremony. Renting a church doesn't cost that much especially if you're a member (that actually attends). Then because the way my stupid heart is setup - I usually still cut a very, very light check. #bbq #babyshower #wedding